12.26.16 – 1 tim 2:1

A couple of years ago I reconnected with an old friend. It didn’t take long to figure out this person was having substance abuse issues. Regardless we had good conversations and eventually I brought the subject up. They admitted they needed help but despite my efforts the substance abuse had the upper hand. Right before Christmas that year I rcvd a text from this person, they were in dire straights so I called and listened to a very incoherent plea for help. After speaking with my wife and a good friend that counsels substance abusers for a living, I made the decision not to help that day. A decision that has weighed heavy on my heart since. How could I, a person who regularly helps those he doesn’t even know, refuse help to an old friend? The guilt and regret I’ve carried with me these past couple years felt like the chains Jacob Marley spoke of and wore.
Recently this person reemerged in much better shape than they were. It appears that the substance abuse is, if nothing else, under control and they are leading a productive life. Earlier this week, I had the opportunity to tell them of my regret. I also asked if I could use the story to speak on the topic of regret. They responded yes, but only if I mentioned the power of prayer and the desire to persevere. You see they were full aware of situation they were in but couldn’t overcome it then. On this side of it, one, they persevered; Romans 5:3-5 – More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. Secondly, they also understand that without the prayers of those who love them, they could not have achieved the former; 1 Timothy 2:1 – First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people. I will hold dear the lesson I learned but in God’s glory, he made this a story NOT of a lesson learned but instead of the redemption of another one of his dear children.